Self-concept is an important factor in the interaction. It
is caused by each individual
in behavior as much as possible adjusted to the concept of self. Human capabilities when compared to all other creatures are better able to know
who he was, observing himself in
every action and be able to
evaluate every action that know and understand the behavior that is acceptable to the environment.
Thus, humans
have a tendency to set the values at the time of perceiving things. Each individual may be aware of the
situation or of its identity but more important is to realize how good or bad a
state-owned as well as how to act toward the situation. Individual behavior is highly
dependent on the quality of the self-concept is a positive self-concept orself-concept
negatively.
According to
Brooks and Emmart (1976), people who have a positive self-concept showed the
following characteristics:
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Feel able to resolve the problem. Subjective
self-understanding of the ability to deal with problems facing the objective.
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Feel equal with others. Understanding
that human beings are not born with the knowledge and wealth. Knowledge and wealth
gained from the process of learning and working life. Understanding the causes individuals
to feel more or less to others.
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Receiving praise without shame. Understanding
the praise, or deserves an award against individuals on the basis of the
results of what has been done before.
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Feel able to repair itself. The ability
to carry out the process of self-reflection to improve behavior deemed less.
Meanwhile, people who have a
negative self-concept showed the following characteristics:
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Sensitive to criticism. The lack of
ability to accept criticism from others as the process of self-reflection.
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Being responsive to praise. Being an overreaction
to the action taken, all actions necessary so feel honored.
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Tend to feel liked by others. Subjective
feeling that everyone else around him look at himself in the negative.
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Having hiperkritik attitude. Likes to
criticize excessively negative towards others.
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Encounter in interaction with the
social environment. Feel less able to interact with other people.
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